by Megan Montgomery Sometimes it is, but often time it’s not. Today, increasing numbers of older children are being adopted internationally, as well as more and more children with special needs. These factors can add additional hurdles to the post adoption period. No matter the age, placement of your child in your arms is such
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Goulash
by Megan Montgomery This ethnically Hungarian dish is a childhood memory of mine. I have no clue why this particular meal has left such an imprint in my memory, considering that my family is not ethnically Hungarian, my mother (who is a fabulous cook by the way) made MANY diverse meals all of the time,
Continue reading »Ethics and Adoption
by Megan Montgomery The evangelical Christian movement to adopt has been getting significant press lately with the recent release of the book by Kathryn Joyce, The Child Catchers: Rescue, Trafficking, and the New Gospel of Adoption. News article after news article discussing this book, might have you thinking that many people involved in international adoption
Continue reading »Truths about Loss in Adoption
by Megan Montgomery The truth is that LOSS is deeply intertwined in the adoption journey. For the adoptee, loss is how they came to be adopted – they lost the opportunity to grown up in their birth family to start. Also, they may have lost a connection to their heritage, culture or race. And ultimately
Continue reading »“Partnering for Permanency"
by Megan Montgomery It just seems fitting to me that National Adoption Month should be the same month many of us make a conscious effort to give thanks. As this month comes to an end, it’s important to remember that this year’s theme for National Adoption Month was “Partnering for Permanency”. We are reminded that
Continue reading »What Do You Fall Back on When Life Starts to Swirl Up Around You?
by Megan Montgomery If you are anything like me there comes a day that you suddenly realize that life is swirling around you. The lists, and phone-calls, e-mails and chores are overwhelming your ability to just “live life”. It’s these times that I have to make myself sit back and appreciate all that I have.
Continue reading »Love is a Game that Two Can Play and Both Win
by Megan Montgomery “Love is a game that two can play and both win.” ~Eva Gabor (Hungarian-born American socialite and actress) Surprisingly, the number of US adoptions from Hungary have been few, the most being 11 in 2007. I cannot help but wonder if one of the most unique qualities of the Hungary adoption program
Continue reading »Domestic Adoption
Domestic Adoption Overview A Definition Adopting domestically from the USA can be done independently with an adoption attorney, through a private adoption agency, or through the public foster care system. Independent or private adoptions are least restrictive for birthparents and for adoptive parents, but the associated costs are generally much higher than the free or
Continue reading »Considering Adoption
Why adopt? To parent a child who needs a home brings much joy and meaning to everyone involved; it is one of the most important, far-reaching decisions an individual or couple will ever make. Some parents immediately know that they were meant to form a family via adoption, while other parents are more comfortable weighing
Continue reading »Considering a Transracial Adoption?
by Terra Trevor Before adopting a child of a different ethnicity it is important to consider all that a child will experience growing up in a transracial family . . . You are waiting to adopt a child and your heart is soaring like an eagle. The moment you make the decision to adopt transracially,
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